Sunday, October 11, 2015

An Elfin Adventure

Sunday, October 11, 2015

Following all the rain the week of September 28 - October October 4, we have pretty much dried out. The ground is still a little spongy but not too bad.  However, when we arrived at the office on Monday morning, I noticed a brown paper bag on the lawn at the side of the parking lot.....but as I looked closer I decided maybe it wasn't a brown paper bag after all.   Elder Ashton and I walked over to inspect what it might be and it was this HUGE mushroom/toadstool that was literally the size of a brown paper lunch sack.   It was so large I was kind of surprised that there were no elves hanging out under it!


It stayed all week until the landscapers came on Thursday.....and I never did see any elf inhabitants :)

The week started out with a call from two young Sister Missionaries last Sunday telling Elder Ashton that they had been in an accident.   They were making a left turn onto a street and there was a large vehicle in the left turn lane on the other side of the intersection.....they thought it was clear but as they pulled out they met up with another car.   All the airbags deployed and Elder Ashton said he thinks both vehicles are totaled.   Since all 78 cars are currently assigned to missionaries, when one is down that poses somewhat of a problem.   Generally the missionaries would walk or ride bikes, but the sister who was driving at the time of the accident is no longer allowed to drive and the other sister didn't have all her driving paperwork turned in.   So, they tried biking for a day, but the "other" sister (the one who didn't have her paperwork turned in) has hip joint problems so she can't ride a bike around all day.   That set of events precipitated working with her parents in Utah to get the paperwork and switching cars around from other missionaries to get them a car....took a couple of days to get that all straightened out.  Thank goodness neither missionary or the other driver were injured badly.

To add another level of complexity to the situation, now that the cars all have "tattle-tale" boxes, that box needed to be removed from the totaled car and it was over in Virginia Beach about 25 miles away.   Aaannnnd, he got a call on Wednesday morning that 3 new cars had arrived at the Toyota dealership so he needs to decide which are the highest mileage cars and make arrangements to get them here to Portsmouth at the same time the new ones are ready to go so the "Tattle-tale" can be removed from the old car and put in the new one.   Kind of a scheduling challenge!

As the week flew by, I realized more and more that fall is upon us and that it will soon be winter/Christmas time.   Guess I better start thinking about that - especially my favorite gift to give - the Spiritual Christmas Eve Gift.   I have a few ideas but nothing is finalized and I don't have much spare time to work on it so it is decision time!


This tree is in our parking lot and every day it appears a little more pink....at least from a distance.   When I get up close to it I can tell that leaves are turning sort of orange and those nestled among the still green leaves makes the tree look almost pink.

 A close-up of another tree in our parking lot just as it was starting to bloom last Spring. 


This is the same tree from about the same angle - picture taken today.   All those pink/white blossoms turned to little red berries that really stand out now that the leaves are turning yellow and starting to fall!


This picture was taken last Spring of the pear trees in bloom.   The trees grow almost like weeds out here and don't produce an edible fruit but the fluffy white blossoms are gorgeous.   

This is what those same trees look like now - with hundreds of "pears" falling on the ground and most of those producing baby trees.   Now I see why the locals consider them like weeds!

On Friday morning Elder Ashton finally got all the driving paperwork for the young Sister Missionary so made arrangements with the Elder in another Senior Couple Missionary set to get a car to those Sisters at their district meeting that morning.   Elder Ashton needed to take a debit card for gasoline to some Elders over in Norfolk, get the "tattle-tale" box out of the wrecked car in Virginia beach and deliver a card for the "Tattle-tale" box to the Sister that is newly certified to drive.   I needed to make a visit to an apartment complex that has not sent a utility bill for two months but has been leaving late notices on the apartment door of the young missionaries.   I had sent 4 e-mails and had 3 phone conversations without resolution so decided to have a personal meeting with the apartment management and since the complex is located in Virginia Beach, I decided to go along with Elder Ashton.  I was able to meet with the management and get the problem worked out and Elder Ashton accomplished his tasks so we headed back to the office.   Before we arrived back there Elder Ashton got another call from the Toyota dealership that the cars could be picked up that afternoon, so he called the Assistants to the President to see if they would be available to help drive the cars back and they said they could help us about 2 p.m.  As we started out to pick up the cars, because I was driving and I get lost easily back here, I called On-Star to help navigate us the 20 miles to the dealership.   The navigation system was telling us where to go when Elder Ashton's phone rang and it was those young Sister Missionaries calling with problems with the car.   They had called just before we left the office to say that the "tattle-tale" yelled at them that they were revving the engine too much so he told them to call the company and they would fix the software in the box.  Now they were calling again.....to say that something was very wrong with the car.   The engine was really revving up and the car wouldn't go very fast at all.  Elder Ashton couldn't hear her very well because the navigation system was talking at the same time and I could sort of hear her .....

So I asked her what gear she had the car in....did she have it in "D" or "M".   We could hear them talking about it in the background, then they said,  "We are going to try and see if it works any better now."   I waited a couple of minutes and said,  "is it working better now?"   "Yes!" was the reply :)   They had it in "M".....so funny!
I told Elder Ashton and the Assistants to the President that maybe they should make me the new fleet coordinator since I was the one to diagnose the problem :)

Saturday after a few loads of laundry I decided it was time to go grocery shopping.  I tried to get hold of Elder Ashton who was out riding his bike, but I couldn't get him to answer his phone so I decided to go to the store without him.   While I was driving to the store my phone rang and it was Elder Ashton.   I asked him where he was and he said, "I am in the back of a patrol car."   Well, my mind immediately started spinning.....did he have a crash and get hurt, did he get lost, or did he get "arrested" for something else?   All this time the theme song from "Cops" was running through my mind, "Bad boys, bad boys, what you gonna do when they come for you?"   About that time Elder Ashton said the law enforcement officer was giving him a ride because he thought the road Elder Ashton was riding on was too dangerous.....wish I had a picture of him sitting in the back of the patrol car - I could use it for blackmail ;-)   By the time I got back from grocery shopping he was home and we decided to take a short trip over to Hampton to see a historic church in Hampton.  It was originally founded in 1610 as the Elizabeth City Parish and has been in 4 different locations but is currently located at the fourth site since 1728.  The church is called St. Johns Episcopal Church.   It was a very interesting and well-kept old building - it has over 3000 graves surrounding it - some from the 1700's.   The sexton unlocked the building and let us go inside and look around, then let us go in the Parish Hall to look at it also.  Very interesting!

Pretty hanging baskets along the street near the church in Hampton


Nice welcome sign out front


Historic information about the church

I liked how the trees formed an arch around the arched doorway....and the pinkish color of the trees at this time of year.....the color of the trees looks like it was chosen to complement the brickwork of the walkway and the church.


Another one of the trees and some of the gravestones.

The alter and some beautiful stained glass windows.


Plaque memorializing five generations who worshiped at the church.


Another beautiful stained glass window.



Lovely pipe organ with a beautiful sound.   The organist for the congregation happened to be there practicing for the services for Sunday while we were looking around.

The oldest headstone - 1701!


A monument to the confederate dead who are buried there.   The small gray square cross to the left of the monument denotes a confederate grave.   There are a large number of those markers located throughout the cemetery portion of the church yard.

More gravestones looking towards the Parish Hall.


A different view of the church 


I found these plaques that listed those who fought in the war of 1812 and were interred in this cemetery


This one listed founders of Virginia and Revolutionary War Patriots that are buried here.


The two pictures above are the of the courthouse.   In the top picture you can see the old portion of the building with the rotunda.   The lower picture shows the addition that was added later.


As we were driving around trying to find someplace to get lunch in historic Hampton, I noticed this Wandering Jew plant with flowers......I've never seen one flowering before so had to get a picture of it!


These two cutie's came to dinner at our house today.   I fixed roast beef, mashed potatoes, gravy, rolls, green beans and green jello salad.    They were both so excited when they came in and saw the salad.   They said, "Yea, Mormon Jello."  I haven't had any of that since I've been out on my mission....and they ate all of it except for the two helpings Elder Ashton and I had.
We think the blondie on the right of the picture looks alot like our grandson Brock's wife Mary....and her personality is sweet like Mary's too!

We are enjoying the cooler temperatures, dryer weather and beautiful, colorful leaves of October here in Virginia right now!












Sunday, October 4, 2015

A Week of Weak Joaquin Adventure

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Yes - is really is October 4th!   Five years ago today I became a great grandma for the first time when Griffen was born.   I'm now a great grandma 6 times over and I must say I LOVE it and every one of those cute kids!  Being a grandmother and great grandmother nearly makes the non-benefits of growing older worth it ;-)

This past week started out pretty much normal with the office staff meeting on Monday morning.   However, when the mail arrived, it got a little busy for me because I received 29 utility bills that needed to be paid that day.   Because the turn-around time for getting a check to vendors is usually about 2 weeks, I need to make sure I process bills the very day they come in the mail to avoid late charges.....so following a quick run back to the apartment for lunch I spent most of the afternoon paying the utility bills.   I also spent some time researching a couple of rent payments that property management companies called about......making sure they were process in Salt Lake City on September 21 and telling them payment should arrive by the 1st of October.

About halfway through the afternoon on Monday, I realized I had forgotten to get a birthday card for Griffen so I left the office for a few minutes to get that taken care of.   As I came out the office door, this little guy was standing on the sidewalk and we kind of had a stare down :)

We stared at each other for awhile......

and he blinked (ran) first :)

Tuesday afternoon I realized I needed to get up and walk around a bit, so decided I would take a lap inside the church.   When I got to the window down by the atrium, I noticed that several of the plants were still blooming, even though fall seems to be on the way.   I went back to the office to get my camera and took a few pictures.


Pink and purple tiny flowers - every little (even old) girl's favorite colors :)


When I looked out the window at this bush, I thought it had little blue butterflies all over it.



As I got closer, I saw that the little blue flowers really did look like small blue butterflies.....good thing I took the pictures when I did because we got a hard rainstorm later that afternoon and it knocked all the flowers off the bush.

Wednesday was Mission Leadership Conference beginning at 10:00 which meant we would have about 50 missionaries in the building.   I had a medical appointment for a mammogram at 9 a.m. so dropped Elder Ashton off and went to my appointment.   Everything went great!!!  No signs of lumps or tumors.....I love getting that report.   I returned to the office about 10 a.m. and as I was eating lunch looked out the window to see heavy rain clouds forming.  

Mid-afternoon it started to rain and has been raining almost constantly since then.   It finally stopped raining for awhile on Saturday and today but is raining again now.  On Wednesday afternoon we decided we better get a few things set in case Hurricane Joaquin hit us as it was predicted.   The weather guys and gals were predicting that it was going to hit the areas around the southern end of Chesapeake Bay directly.....and would come on the heals of what the locals are calling a nor'easter - a storm with northeast breezes that brings lots of rain.   We certainly got the nor'easter but it now looks like Joaquin is headed east of us and out to sea - can't say I'm disappointed in that!

It has rained and rained and rained and rained some more.   Because of all the rain, even the rivers are rising, especially during high tide!   Some of the coastal areas are getting quite a bit of flooding, but we are high enough that we are not getting flooding.  

This is a view of the river as we cross the bridge on our way to the church/office.   You can see that most of the boat docks are submerged or nearly submerged.   The boat in the left of the picture usually sits about 4 feet out of the water.    Water, water, everywhere!

Thursday and Friday was lots more rain and trying to stay inside and dry - just doing regular work in the office.   The "tattle-tale" boxes have been doing some crazy things so Elder Ashton has been kept busy with phone calls about those.  Generally if the missionaries call the telephone number on the back of their ID card, the company can send an update to the device via satellite and fix the problems but it is taking a bit of getting used to.

On Thursday, Elder Ashton received a manila envelope from his cousin in California and was excited to see this.....

...a bandanna worn by his grandfather when he was working on the railroad.   His grandfather retired in about 1954 - so this bandanna is probably at least 60+ years old.  The cloth is worn thin and a little frayed on the edges but I think this is a great keepsake!

 We drive past one particular Rite Aid drugstore sevral times a day on our way to and from the office.   I don't want to look at the signs encouraging me to get a flu shot, so I spend my time looking at the foliage instead.   I really like this bush, which has just started to put out these pretty fuchsia blowers.


I love the contrast between the fuchsia and green


White blossom stems....they did have a tiny bit of pink in them so I imagine they turn fuchsia as they get closet to blooming.


Interesting flower petals and even purple leaves!


A bright yellow flower outside the church.
 When we arrived home today after taking an investigator to the church to view conference with us, we found these things.....

Lots of fall leaves and pine cones on the ground.



More fall leaves - some of them are about 4 inches across.


Broken branches lying beneath the trees


And a crop of mushrooms!

Nature produces so many new pictures for me......things I probably wouldn't see in Arizona. 
  

Trees with crazy bark outside a local restaurant

On Wednesday when I arrived back at the office, mother nature had left her own Halloween decorations on the plants in front of my parking space.


Despite the soggy weather and the creepy bugs, we are still loving our time here and the experiences we are having!   Happy Fall everyone in Arizona......I hear temperatures have finally dipped below 100 degrees!   The best time of year for Arizona is right around the corner :)


Sunday, September 27, 2015

A "Tattle-Tale" Adventure

Sunday, September 27, 2015

Back in the very olden days (before wheels were invented my kids would say) I used to play a song on the piano and some of the words went like this, "Oh it's a long, long time, from May to September."   But I am here to tell you it isn't - it's not even a long, long time from May to October which will be here in a few short days.   We are so busy here in the mission that the weeks go flying by and every week I wonder how we got from Monday to Friday so quickly.  All around us we see signs of autumn approaching and I am sure that cold weather will not be too far behind that.   In fact, it has only been warm enough in the office for me to wear sandals one day this week.....and I really don't like to wear close-toed shoes but I do want to keep my toes warm.  

Following a "regular" day in the office on Monday, Elder Ashton left with Elder Wright to drive down to Kinston, North Carolina.   This week representatives from Salt Lake were here along with some technical people to install "tattle-tale" boxes in all the mission cars, plus Elder Ashton needed to inspect all the cars in the mission.   There are 78 cars in the fleet he manages and every car is assigned out to at least one set of missionaries - some are shared by two or more sets of missionaries. We also have several areas in the mission where the missionaries do not have access to a car so it is a biking area.   Elder Ashton tries to keep enough bikes in good repair to keep that going and also make sure all the cars are maintained and repaired properly so it keeps him really busy!  When Elder Ashton went to Kinston he left the truck with me, so on my lunch break I went exploring a few different areas in Portsmouth.   I was really proud of myself that I didn't get lost and was able to make it both to our apartment and back to the office without any wrong turns.   I saw this bright plant at the base of a tree in a yard and just had to snap a picture of it.

This reminded me a little of the "Indian Paintbrush" that used to grow almost as a weed in Wyoming.   Sure is a pretty salmon color.

Wednesday was more of the same in the mission - Elder Ashton and Elder Wright went over to Newport News to inspect more cars and have more "tattle-tales" installed.   That left us 3 women in the office and we planned that we would party with salads and fruit, but it got so busy we couldn't all break away for lunch at the same time so there was not much partying going on.

Thursday was the last group of cars for inspection and installation and that was held in Portsmouth so there were lots of missionaries in our building that day.   Once the training portion of the meeting was over, Elder Ashton had about 14 missionaries lined up around his desk all asking him questions at the same time!   I tried to help out by handing them their inspection sheets and trying to answer some of their questions but most needed Elder Ashton's expertise.  The conversation around his desk was so loud that OSHA would have required that we wear earplugs to protect our hearing!  I got the distinct impression that the missionaries were pretty worried about the "tattle-tales".   The boxes record their driving and warn them of some infractions, others they get no warning but a report goes to Elder Ashton, to President Baker, and to Salt Lake Fleet Management and the missionaries may lose driving privileges for those infractions.   The one that counts against them the most is driving without a seat belt!   Other infractions that are noted are speeding, hard breaking, speeding up too fast, turning a corner too fast, going airborne.....and I can't remember what else.   As the representative from Salt Lake was explaining the program, he noted that the most important thing is to make missionaries aware of their driving habits and to keep them safe.....of course, to the missionaries the most important thing is that they don't lose their driving privileges.   It will be interesting to see how this goes once Elder Ashton starts getting the reports.

At about 5 o'clock on Thursday one Elder brought a bicycle wheel into the office and said it had a broken spoke.   Elder Ashton was trying to help him get it fixed, but noticed when he turned the axle to get the spoke out that one side of the axle turned and the other stayed stationary....he had more than a broken spoke - he had an axle that was completely broken into 2 parts.  That meant a trip over to the apartment where the Assistants to the President live to get some bicycle parts as Elder Ashton was asked to move out of the little closet where he had his "Bicycle Shop".   On the way over to the apartment, I noticed several more signs of fall.


Even the small landscaping bushes are starting to turn a pretty coral color.



Scattered throughout several of the trees are bight red (scarlet) leaves.   I don't think I've ever seen those before.



More red leaves


Still more red leaves.   I find it interesting that the tree is mostly green - no yellow leaves.   I guess they must turn from green to red.


This tree seemed to have one branch that is beginning to change color and the leaves look quite pink.   We have a tree like that in our parking lot, but every time I think about taking a picture of it, it is raining outside.   We've had quite a bit of rain this past week and it has caused the tides to rise - and also the river.   As we came back from church today I noticed that a couple of the boat docks in the river near the bridge we cross are almost submerged.   More rain is predicted for the next few days so it should be interesting to see how that goes.

Several times this week I noticed this little ground cover plant as we were coming and going from the office.   I am intrigued by the tiny, delicate flowers.   Each flower is about the size of my pinky toe nail, yet very detailed.   We certainly live in a beautiful world full of all kinds of detail!

Saturday as we were driving home from the grocery store, we drove back over the road we took the other day and I tried to grab a few photos......they didn't turn out very well because it was raining but I thought the starkness of this dead tree with the vines climbing up it was interesting.


I think the rain spots make it even more interesting ;-)



We drove around a bit after church today trying to see how high the river was.   It is a little high, but I was most surprised to see the heron in the grasses along the river.   Can you see it?


One last pretty little flower I found as I strolled around the parking lot today before it started to rain.

Today marks 11 months since we entered the MTC.   The time has flown by and I have learned a great deal about myself - my strengths, my weaknesses, how to spend 24/7 with my husband of 48 years and still like him, how to love people around me who have had much different life experiences than I have, and how to survive without those family hugs that I miss so much.   I have found the best cure for missing family is to get busy with the work I was called her to do and then I don't miss them quite so much.   I've also learned a much deeper appreciation for my country and those who worked so hard and sacrificed so much to establish it.....I've loved visiting historical places and have several more I want to see in the next 7 months.  And I have almost learned how to say y'all ;-)

This adventure has been more work, but also more rewarding than I ever could have imagined when we left Arizona last October!